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The Personal Operating Manual
Write the one-page document that tells the people you work with how you actually work — so they stop having to guess.
$27 one-time · 39-page PDF · instant download
Most of the friction between you and the people you work with is undocumented information. A personal operating manual is a short document, one or two pages, that you write and hand to the people you work with: how you work best, what governs your decisions, how you prefer to receive information and disagreement, and where your limits are. This book is the method; your manual is the output.
Read this if
- People keep misreading your short replies, your silence or your need to think before deciding.
- You keep getting handed work that drains you because it looks like your kind of thing.
- You are starting with a new team, client or co-founder and want to skip months of guessing.
- You want to finish a book holding a draft, not just notes.
What's inside
39 pages: an introduction, eight chapters and three appendices.
Chapter 1. What a personal operating manual is
The boundary around what the document is and what it covers.
Chapter 2. Gathering the evidence
Two weeks of low-effort observation before you write anything.
Chapter 3. Values and non-negotiables
Values that cost you something, not a list of fifteen good words.
Chapter 4. Energy and rhythm
Telling people when you are sharp and when you are not.
Chapter 5. How you decide
What you need before you commit, how fast you can honestly decide, and which decisions need a night.
Chapter 6. Communication preferences
Channel, format, context, disagreement, praise, and what your silence means.
Chapter 7. Boundaries and failure modes
The conditions under which you are at your worst, how others can spot them, and what helps.
Chapter 8. Writing, sharing and maintaining it
Getting it to one page, handing it over, and keeping it current.
The appendices
The appendices are working tools you fill in, not more reading.
Appendix A — The manual template
Fill it in as you go and you finish holding a draft.
Appendix B — The two-week observation log
Five minutes at the end of each working day for ten working days.
Appendix C — Prompts for the uncomfortable sections
Prompts and example framings for boundaries and failure modes.
FAQ
What exactly do I get?
A 39-page PDF of The Personal Operating Manual. After payment, the Stripe confirmation page shows a direct download link to the PDF. Save that link or the file.
How do I pay?
Checkout is handled by Stripe. You pay once; there is no subscription.
Is this therapy or counselling?
No. It teaches you to write a short working document about how you work. It is not therapy, counselling or medical advice, and it is not a substitute for working with a qualified professional.
How long is the finished manual?
One page, two at most. The book explains how to cut it down.
Does it certify me in anything?
No. Nothing here certifies, licenses or qualifies you for anything. The only thing it produces is a document with your name on it.
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Please read first — from the book
This book teaches you to write a short working document about how you work. It is not therapy, counselling, or medical advice, and writing a manual is not a substitute for working with a qualified professional.
Some of what you notice while doing this will not be a working-style pattern. Exhaustion that sleep does not fix, dread before ordinary meetings, a temper you cannot get in front of, a low mood that sits there for months — a book cannot tell the difference between a preference, a hard season and a health condition. A doctor, therapist or counsellor can. If something here keeps pointing at the same sore spot, take it to one of them rather than writing a better paragraph about it.
Nothing here certifies, licenses or qualifies you for anything. The only thing it produces is a document with your name on it.